NO CHEESE, PLEASE!
February 19, 2016 by dianegates
I glanced at my watch, fifteen minutes to spare. Super. I whipped off I30 and pulled into the local McDonalds to quiet the gnawing of my stomach on my backbone. The line was long, but I had a margin of fifteen minutes. No problem—
When the cars finally moved enough for me to place my order I was committed. “I’d like a ham and egg McMuffin with no cheese, please.” She repeated the order and I confirmed, “That’s right. No cheese.” I pulled forward and waited. And waited.
The car in front of me must have been ordering food for a multitude. No joke, ten minutes passed. And I waited some more. When the car pulled away, the McDonald’s lady handed me my sack and a giant coke.
“No cheese, right?”
She smiled and nodded.
My fifteen-minute margin had been gobbled as I pulled back onto the freeway. I unwrapped my McMuffin, anticipating the deliciousness, but noticing the wrappings seemed thinner than usual—there was no egg!
Just a slice of ham and warm muffin slathered in melted, yellow, gooey stuff. So ooey-gooey I couldn’t separate the ingredients from each other.
Now any other time, I would have looped around the restaurant, gone back through the drive-through, and demanded they fix the problem. But I was already headed west on I30, and running late. I took a bite or too, but the greasy processed yuck impersonating cheese coated the roof of my mouth. I stuffed the remains of a breakfast-gone-bad back in the bag and pouted. Gonna be a long time ‘til lunch.

With every spin of the tires I grumbled about the kitchen staff’s inability to fill a simple order. What’s so hard about leaving off a piece-a-cheese?
And God let me grumble for a mile or so—until He pointed to the comparison between the cheesy sins I served Him each day. with my lack of regard or remorse for not giving Him what He asks.
“But these are incompetent people,” I argued. “… not paying attention or caring what they’re doing.” Silence filled the car and the space in my mind.
“…not paying attention or caring…” circulated in my mind while I recalled my harsh words to my husband the evening before when he hadn’t done something I thought should be done. And the Lord punched the play button on the tape of my incompetent and rebellious moments where He specifically asked me to discard distasteful habits in my life. Habits I had drug home and allowed them to take up residence—worse yet, habits—no let’s call them what they are—sins I paid no attention to as they grew new roots, attaching and renewing themselves to my heart and mind like weeds.

I won’t even bother to record my list. I’m sure you have your own.
Sins, like melty cheese on my deformed McMuffin, that stick to hearts and minds. Sins we all are either too lazy, too unobservant, or too ignorant or rebellious to scrape off and throw in the trash. But we need to identify and own up to our sins, seek God’s forgiveness and healing, through the blood of Jesus Christ.
Paul tells us in Colossians 3:8-11 we are to put aside:
“anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth. Do not lie to one another, since you laid aside the old self with its evil practices, and have put on the new self who is being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the One who created Him—a renewal in which there is no distinction between Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave and freeman, but Christ is all, and in all.”
But Paul doesn’t leave us standing naked and exposed. In Chapter 3:12 of Colossians he tells us what to put on.
“So as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful.”
It’s impossible for me to be thankful when I’m gripping. And as if to test what I learned last Saturday, when I pulled through another McDonalds yesterday, one where they never mix up my order, guess what? Yep, I got everything, including cheese. So what was I supposed to do—suck it up and eat it anyway? Oh no. We are to instruct, rebuke, and teach—in a kind manner. I looped around the building and asked them to give me the order I requested—a McMuffin with no cheese.

And likewise, God requires you and I to take another loop around His Word, so He can instruct, rebuke, and teach us to put to death the unrighteous, cheesy sins that separate us from fellowship with Him and each other.
“Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father” (Colossians 3:16-17 NAS).
Posted in A Nation Divided | Tagged Compassion, Forgiving others as Christ forgives you, Instruction, Kindness, Patience, peace, Teaching, Thankfulness, Wisdom | 9 Comments
Diane, I so enjoy your blogs. The cut to the chase, rather to the heart. Thank you for the time you invest in listening to God and to passing on his lessons.
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Thank you so much for reading and responding, Carole. As you know writing can be a lonely occupation and some feel I’m too harsh. But my heart is burdened for the Church. I believe the Church is one of the largest mission fields in America, because the large portion of church members have no idea what God’s Word says and how it applies to their everyday lives. They are content with an appetizer on Sunday, then starve the remainder of the week. Not a healthy diet to grow on.
DiAne
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This article is so to the point concerning the daily sins we ignore and plague our relationships first with God and with others. I can’t look at another McDonalds the same!!! I repent!
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Hear! Hear! Have you ever thought of becoming a preacher? I know some churches that could really benefit from your style and wisdom.
Jackie
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I love to teach. Preacher I’m not, the Word is clear on that issue. But if my writing can steer someone back to the Word and to obedience to the Lord God I’m grateful. I’ve been told my style is annoying to many. Raised in the south and in the years when preachers proclaimed the unvarnished truth of God, I tend to want to speak and hear the same. This generation has been allowed to develop the wrong image of God and will be horrified to learn He’s not the half asleep grandpa, who clucks His tongue and winks. He is our Righteous, Holy, Sovereign God of all of Creation and we will give Him glory…voluntarily or in that day. Oops, I’ve done gone to doing it again. Thanks for reading and responding.
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Morning, DiAne,
Do you have any suggestions for a good Sunday School study guide for adult classes? We have a discussion type class and we’ve been using the Genesis to Revelation study guide for a long time. It’s a good guide, but some of us think it might be nice to try something different for a change. Since I brought the subject up, I was appointed to check into it.
Any good ideas?
Jackie
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Sorry to be so long replying, Jackie. I’ve been out-of-town. Yes, I would check into doing a Precept Bible Study. Precept Ministries offers many studies, some longer than others, and it might work well within a discussion framework. If you don’t have time to do the videos, just do the discussion and study homework.
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You are so right. I, too, was raised on the good old unvarnished truth, and I wonder what’s going to happen to a country full of people who either ignore or don’t know about it any more. Sometimes I’m glad I’m on the way out of this world and not on the way in.
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Thanks, DiAne. I’m going down to our Bible book store and check it out.
Jackie
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